They're tiny humans... so I treat them that way!
There are many things that a photographer can do to help your children have fun in their photo session, but I wanted to share a few things I personally do with my clients' children to get the shot!
The first thing I do is greet them enthusiastically... but not too crazily. Please don't be offended if I do acknowledge your children first, I do this to help them feel more important and seen once they enter the studio. It can be a lot for little ones to be in a new place... so I do my best to create open communication and acknowledgement right when they walk in the door. I do try to keep my tone upbeat, but some kids get spooked so I may tone it down a little and become quieter if I notice their reaction is not a positive one.
Another thing I may do to show your children I'm a friend is to interact with you and other family members your children trust. Giving mom or dad a high five shows that 'hey my parent can give them a high five... so can I!'. Children love the imitation game, so more often than not if I am able to create a game out of interactions with other family members, they mimic those actions and enjoy playing. When children play, it is the most organic way to gather the true essence of their joy.
If you have a busy-body... parents of 2–3 year-olds, I'm talking to you ha-ha... I will always have a small activity for your children to do during their photoshoot. Toddlers around this age definitely do not have a long attention span, which can lead them to lose interest in what seems like moments. The reason I always plan this ahead of time is so that your children's activity matches the colors or theme of your photoshoot. We can be practical and aesthetically pleasing!
Throughout your photoshoot, your child may experience many different emotions... and that is OKAY! I will never press your child to be happy or smile the whole time. The method I use is to allow space for your child's emotions during their shoot so they can work through them, and we can move on to having fun! If you do bring a few (or many) people to witness your child's photoshoot that is okay, however there may be times where your child may need a calmer, quieter place to feel comfortable relaxing again. If I ask everyone to be quieter, it is to give your child a moment to decompress. Trust me, the wonders a quiet moment can do are endless!
Worst comes to worst... I can give your child a break, If I have time between sessions, I can allow time for a nap, lunch, a bottle, or anything else you and your child may need. Sometimes it just may not be their day... I have no problem offering your child space to come back at a better time if I am able to. I love my job, so don't come to a session pressured for everything to be perfect. They're your child... they already ARE perfect.
Take a breath... We got this!
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